She Comes First
Ian Kerner
2014 - William Morrow
Sex'ploration
In this book, the author writes about his experiences and learnings on cunnilingus. The first part of the book is an introduction on cunnilingus: a little bit of history, of anatomy, and description of the processes of sexual arousal in women. The second part is intended to be a practical guide to THE way to make a woman come, and is accompanied with descriptions of gestures, the steps to follow, and some explicit drawings.
“I was left with a mixed impression of this book.
On the one hand, the author speaks bluntly about the cunnilingus, and does so from a man’s point of view, which is original. In addition, it is complete, simple and concrete. He provides real techniques to try out and does more than just say “watch your partner’s reaction and adapt from it”.
On the other hand, the writing style is not very fluid. And he presents a technique in a way that is similar to a cooking recipe, detailed, timed, as if it was the one way to follow for success. This leaves little room for the diversity of bodies, the power of our creativity and our imagination”.
Judith